How to Really Win Big in Life: The 3 Keys to Victory

What does it take to truly win in life? Not just success in the world’s eyes—but a life of lasting victory, purpose, and impact.

In Episode 180 of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach breaks down the 3 Keys to Victory that separate those who win big from those who settle. Whether you’re an entrepreneur, athlete, leader, or simply someone who wants to live on purpose, this article gives you a clear blueprint to win big in life—God’s way.

Let’s dive in.

Winning Is God’s Design for Your Life

First, it’s important to understand: winning is part of your design. You were made in God’s image, and God is a winner. He doesn’t lose, and He didn’t create you to live a life of defeat.

But to win God’s way, you have to align with His definition of success, not the world’s.

“You were created to win. Losing should feel wrong because you weren’t designed for it.”
—Garrett Unclebach

The Danger of the World’s Definition of Winning

Garrett points out that many people are chasing worldly wins—money, fame, status—while missing eternal victory. The world’s version of success is self-centered. God’s version is purpose-centered.

“If you’re winning in the world’s eyes but losing in heaven’s, you’re not really winning.”
—Garrett Unclebach

Reflection:

• Are you winning where it really matters?

• Are you chasing purpose or applause?

The 3 Keys to Victory

Garrett lays out three core keys that all winners have in common. These are non-negotiables if you want to experience lasting victory in every area of life.

Key #1: Discipline

Without discipline, you won’t build anything lasting. Discipline is what allows you to push past excuses, show up consistently, and put in the work long after motivation fades.

“Discipline is the difference between those who win and those who wish.”
—Garrett Unclebach

Practical Tips:

• Have a non-negotiable routine—especially for mornings.

• Master your physical body as the first level of discipline (sleep, exercise, diet).

• Set high standards and stick to them, even when no one’s watching.

Key #2: Focus

The ability to focus is a superpower in today’s world of distractions. Winners are laser-focused on their goals and refuse to be sidetracked.

Garrett shares how Cristiano Ronaldo’s legendary focus propelled him to GOAT status—not just talent, but relentless focus on his goal.

“Focus isn’t about saying yes to the right things—it’s about saying no to everything else.”
—Garrett Unclebach

Practical Tips:

• Clarify your goals. Write them down and revisit them daily.

• Eliminate distractions. Guard your time and attention like it’s your most valuable asset—because it is.

• Practice single-tasking. Go deep, not wide.

Key #3: Resilience

Every winner faces setbacks. What separates them is resilience—the ability to bounce back stronger.

Garrett’s SEAL training taught him this firsthand. It wasn’t about never getting knocked down—it was about always getting back up, learning, and pushing forward.

“Resilience is what turns failure into fuel.”
—Garrett Unclebach

Practical Tips:

• Embrace failure as part of the process.

• Learn the lesson, adjust, and keep moving.

• Surround yourself with people who will push you forward, not let you stay stuck.

The Equation of Winning

Garrett sums it up with this simple but powerful equation:

Discipline + Focus + Resilience = Victory

You need all three. Miss one, and you’ll fall short of the big wins God designed you for.

The Danger of Winning in the Wrong Arena

Winning at the wrong things can leave you empty. Garrett warns against becoming the rich, successful person who’s bankrupt in their marriage, family, or faith.

“If you’re winning in business but losing at home, you’re losing.”
—Garrett Unclebach

Real victory is holistic. It spans your spiritual life, your family, your purpose, and your impact.

Practical Action Plan: Start Winning Big Now

✅ Audit your life. Where are you truly winning? Where are you settling?
✅ Double down on discipline. Start small—wake up early, exercise, and read scripture daily.
✅ Clarify your focus. Define your top priorities and eliminate distractions.
✅ Build resilience. Embrace failure and keep showing up.
✅ Pray for God’s perspective. Ask Him where He wants you to focus your effort.

Final Thought: You Were Made to Win

You were created in the image of the greatest winner in history. It’s time to align your life with His calling, walk in discipline, focus on your assignment, and develop the resilience to keep going.

“Stop playing small. Step into the big wins God has for you.”
—Garrett Unclebach

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